A Parenting Coordinator Can Reduce Conflict
Parenting conflicts are one of the biggest issues that take families back into the courtroom again and again during separations or divorces. Not only is this an expensive way to resolve conflicts, but it is stressful on both parents and children. Luckily, there are other ways to resolve these conflicts. One of the best ways is through the use of a parenting coordinator.
Parenting Coordinators
Parenting coordinators serve as a neutral party in a separation or divorce, and are dedicated to serving the best interests of the children. They help to settle disputes between parents without a trip to court, which can take weeks even for a decision on something that is needed tomorrow. In most cases, hiring a parenting coordinator is also far less expensive than another trip to court.
This coordinator works to help parents compromise on solutions, and to learn to work together on a parenting plan. When parents cannot agree, however, the coordinator is empowered to make legally binding recommendations for the child. They must work within the parameters of the court’s custody orders, but they do have the power to step in when parents cannot agree on a parenting strategy.
Cost of Hiring a Coordinator
In most cases, the cost of parenting coordinators is split equally between both parents. Occasionally, the expense has been included in custody agreements or there is an Order of the Court that specifies how the cost is split. Sometimes a judge will also require one parent to pay the cost because he or she is the one who refuses to put the child’s best interests first.
Once a referral to a coordinator has been put into place, the first step is for the family and the coordinator to become acquainted. The coordinator will review the case and look over the current concerns. Then, meetings with each parent and the children will be scheduled. Joint meetings will probably also be scheduled, although sometimes prior conflict inhibits this from happening.
The children rarely meet with the coordinator. While he or she works in the best interest of the child, these coordinators primary role is to help the parents reach a consensus. In most cases, the children are excused from these meetings, and it is recommended they do not attend. This is to buffer the children from seeing their parent’s disagree.
If you are struggling to agree on co-parenting issues with your former spouse or your child’s other parent, there are other options besides going to court over every issue. One way to reach an agreement or receive a legally binding ruling without seeing a judge is through hiring a coordinator. Parenting coordinators can save you money, reduce stress and help you to keep your child’s best interests first and foremost.
Fine and Associates Toronto Family Law and Divorce Lawyers are your source for family law expertise in Toronto. We can offer you advice and assistance, including referrals to trusted parenting coordinators in the area. Contact us today to learn more.