How to Divorce an Abusive Husband

Are you aware of the signs of an abusive relationship? The most telling piece of evidence is that you’re afraid of your husband. He uses fear to control you and those in your family.

You don’t have to live in fear of your husband any longer. If you’re a survivor of domestic abuse, you have options to leave your marriage and start a new, healthy life.

Taking the First Step 

The first step to ending the marriage with your abusive husband is to admit that what is happening in this relationship isn’t your fault. The physical violence, the insults, the jealousy and the control aren’t because of something you’ve done. They are the fault of one person only: your husband.

This isn’t an easy realization to come to on your own. And it can take quite a bit of time. However, you don’t have to do it alone. There are many people and organizations that can assist you in your journey.

The Next Step

After you’ve realized that you are in an abusive marriage and you want to end it, the next step is to talk to a lawyer.

It’s important to be aware of the way that divorce law works in Ontario. There are two types of divorce in this province: no fault and for fault. In a no fault divorce, the two parties agree that the marriage is irrevocably broken and can’t be repaired.

Conversely, a for-fault divorce means that one spouse is trying to prove that the other has caused the breakdown of the marriage. The spouse that is claiming abuse has taken place needs to prove it in court. Having a lawyer in this situation is a necessity, as he or she can guide you through the complexities of the legal system.

Regardless of whether your divorce is for fault or no fault, the grounds for divorce don’t have an impact on how the judge will decide on custody, access to the children or support for them.

You’re not alone

If you’re in an abusive marriage and have decided it’s time to leave, you don’t have to do it on your own. Due to the emotionally charged nature of a divorce, it is important to have someone who is objective and not emotionally involved in the issues so that you benefit from sound legal advice. At Fine & Associates, we will fight aggressively to protect your rights and interests during your divorce!

Contact Fine & Associates today at 647-557-7454 or fill out the form on the right to book an appointment with one of our experienced divorce lawyers.