Divorce and COVID-19: Should You Wait?

The COVID-19 pandemic has taken its toll not only on people’s health and businesses, but in many cases, also on their marriages. Over the past year, we have seen a surge in divorce filings. The challenge however is that during the pandemic, the courts have been largely closed other than for emergency hearings.

This has left some people wondering whether they should wait until things open up a bit more before filing for divorce. Unfortunately, no one really knows how long it will take for things to return to normalcy – so if you do decide to wait, it is unclear how long you will have to do so.
So if you are wondering whether or not you should wait to file for or proceed with your divorce, here are a few factors you should consider.

The legal system is modernizing

Even though most legal proceedings are not happening in person, COVID-19 has forced the legal system to modernize. Mediations are being held virtually, and the courts are now accepting electronic documents.

Even when the courts do go back to meeting in person, it is expected that they will continue to use these technologies and tools as many enjoy the convenience and efficiency.

Health concerns when divorcing during COVID-19

Divorce is one of the most stressful life events that a person can go through, as there can be a lot of conflict and uncertainty about the future. And stress, as we all know, can have a very negative impact on one’s immune system – something you really don’t want during a pandemic.
If things between you and your ex are relatively amicable, it may be in your best interest to wait. But if conflict and strife levels are high, then moving forward with your divorce may be the best way to finally be done with the excess stress.

Financial considerations of COVID-19 and divorce

COVID-19 has hurt a lot of people financially. Some have lost jobs or businesses, and many have seen their investments plummet over the past year.

And divorce comes with its own financial strain as well. In addition to legal fees, you may also be facing child support and spousal support payments. If you are also facing added financial pressure due to the pandemic, you should speak to your lawyer about how you can adjust these payments during these unprecedented times.

There are also things you can do to keep the legal costs of your divorce in check. As long as the divorce is amicable, a short, mediated divorce is usually your best option.

So, should you wait to go ahead with your divorce during the pandemic?

Ultimately, the answer to this question is going to depend on your personal circumstances and preferences. Every sector has been forced to adapt to these unusual times, so even though you may not be able to see your lawyer or go to court in person, this is not necessarily a barrier anymore to finalizing your divorce. However, it is important to evaluate how waiting (or not waiting) will affect your personal health and finances.

Contact Fine and Associates today

If you are filing or considering filing for divorce, the family lawyers at Fine and Associates in Toronto, Markham and Oakville can help you not only navigate your divorce but also help you do it through the new realities of the pandemic. Contact us today to schedule a consultation.