Getting Divorced in Your Late 50s? You’re Not Alone, and Here’s Why
How many people do you know getting divorced in their late 50s? The chances are that there are quite a few people.
The stereotype of people in their 50s leading quieter, slower lives has been shattered by this phenomenon. Read on to learn why common life changes are causing people in their 50s to reassess their marriages and sometimes end them.
Empty Nests, Ruffled Feathers
After the kids leave home, couples have more time on their hands. For some people, that’s not a good thing.
More time on their hands means more time to think. And that can lead to thoughts of dissatisfaction with the person’s marriage. The spouse might be wondering, “Why am I still with this person if he/she makes me so unhappy?”
Also, it can be difficult for spouses to reconnect with each other after over a decade of focusing on their children’s needs. They might discover that they’ve each changed, and the other person isn’t who they thought he or she was.
Life Is Too Short
When people are in their 50s, they have a better sense of their mortality. They know they’re not going to live forever.
They’ve also come to the realization that however many years they’ve got left, they don’t want to spend them with the person they’re with now. These people have come to the realization that it’s better to be alone than to be together and unhappy.
Money Isn’t an Object Anymore
By the time they’re in their 50s, many married couples are financially more secure. They can afford to do things they might not have been able to do when they were younger.
One of those things is get a divorce. Divorces aren’t cheap, even if they’re uncontested. At this point in their lives, many people in their late 50s own their own homes, and those homes have increased in value. They can afford to live on their own after divorce.
Getting a Divorce in Your Late 50s?
If you’re in your late 50s and are considering getting a divorce, we at Fine & Associates can help you. Our team of dedicated legal professionals has the experience, knowledge and sensitivity to help you through this challenging time. We’ll fight for your rights and ensure you get what you deserve.
To learn more about how we can help, fill out the form to the right, or contact us to set up a free consultation.