Important Rules to Remember when dealing with a Separation/Divorce

It is important to keep in mind the following rules when dealing with a Separation /Divorce:

1.  Separation/Divorce is a very stressful experience.  It is important to try to deal with the situation in a mature, reasonable, objective manner.  Do NOT let your emotions dictate your actions;

2. It is important to have the benefit of independent legal advice and full financial disclosure before you enter into any Agreement with your spouse/partner.  Do NOT draft your own Agreement without counsel from a Toronto divorce lawyer;

3. Be very careful what you say and do when there is potential for court proceedings or ongoing proceedings.  It is likely that anything negative will end up in an Affidavit before the court.  You want the judge to have a positive picture of you and your case.  Do NOT say or do anything you will regret in the future;

4. Do not lie or conceal any evidence.  Your credibility is important. If you lie or mislead the court in any manner or hide evidence or assets, and you are discovered, your credibility will be destroyed.  A judge may then be unlikely to believe anything you say.  Do NOT lie, cheat, conceal or hide evidence;

5. Be honest with your family lawyer.  He/she is on your side.  Your lawyer should know the entire story.  You do not want your lawyer to be surprised by the other side.  Your lawyer must know the good with the bad.  Do NOT lie to your lawyer;

6. Be child focused.  You may hate your spouse/partner, but your love for your child(ren) must be greater than your hate for your spouse/partner.  Remember, Divorce/separation may have a lasting negative impact on your children.  You do not want your children to suffer because of your actions.  Do NOT forget about your child (ren);

Please feel free to contact Mr. Fine to discuss any aspects of your divorce, or inquiries that you may have about family law.