The Analysis of Separation

Separation is a common topic and totally relevant in society today. No one wants to admit to separation. The party that is separating from another usually has to justify the reason for separation. This makes separation easier to cope with. The party that is being separated from usually needs justification also, because this makes it easier for them to deal with separation.

How to cope with separation

No person wants to be blamed for separation. Separation is the result of a negative connection. Negativity must be justified if this is the reason for separation. Separation can also be positive. Going to a better college, a better job or a better life is a positive separation and the justification is evident; it is seen in the person’s attitude and actions.

Lack of Communication Can Cause Separation

When communication and lack of it is a problem, separation is almost inevitable. Communication is the foundation of any good relationship. Communication can determine whether the fight for the relationship is worth the fight. A communication disconnection causes people to doubt themselves and the party that they are dealing with. This disconnection can be the reason for separation. No person wants to be involved in a relationship where they are not heard or understood.

Some separations can produce positive results. The quote “absence makes the heart grow fonder” can apply to certain separations. When a relationship is new, everything about the relationship is to be admired. When the relationship is old, everything is to be criticized; sometimes to a fault. No person wants to be constantly criticized or blamed for negative aspects of a relationship. This can cause separation. A separation can force those involved to take a meticulous look at how they are interacting with the parties involved in the relationship.

Separation can actually cause analysis and bring objective prospective to a relationship. In order to analyze the relationship which would include the pros and the cons, try to use these tips:

• Be objective. Look at the facts that caused the separation.
• Be sensitive. Be sensitive to the situations that caused the need for separation.
• Be optimistic. Look at the bright side. There are two sides to every situation and every situation must be handled differently.

Be a proactive participant to insure the best results for separation resolution. If separation is the goal of the relationship, try to leave the negotiations with positive feedback. Try and be understanding even if the cause for separation is aggressively negative. Maintaining a calm presence in the face of negativity is a good start to resolution and solving the problem(s) that could ultimately lead to separation in a negative situation.

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